To get the menu on the right all you need to do is add a “Custom Menu” widget in side the “Header Right” widget area and select your menu from there. Then once you do that, just go back and deactivate the primary menu if you don’t need it to show up.
The Primary Nav Extras only show up for the Primary Menu area and it won’t show up with the Custom Menu (thats the way Genesis is setup)
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